重燃希望的两招：挽救婚姻于绝望之际，一个女子的分手日志与伤感文章

在情感语录中，我和你的故事被写满了。这些语录不断地影响着我们，就像一股无形的力量，总是在推动我们的关系向前发展。那么，这些关于我和你的最全的情感语录又有哪些呢？下面是小编为大家整理的2个狠招收服“出轨男”，再绝望的婚姻也能重燃！，欢迎大家借鉴与参考，希望对大家有所帮助。

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本人，一位38岁的家庭主妇。我跟我的丈夫，他是一位42岁的项目经理。我们是二婚，因为不是第一次结婚，所以我特别珍惜我们之间的情感。我追他的时候，他很上心，我们在一起时，我什么都不图，只想找个依靠，而且我觉得他对我特别好。这一年是我们结婚十周年，但自从有了女儿开始，他在外面上班，我在家带孩子。在一些时候，我会因为生活的小事而心情不好，当他下班回来后，我会跟他发些牢骚。他不爱听，我们俩之间的交流就越来越少。他是个喜欢寻求刺激的人，而我却不怎么配合他，所以夫妻生活慢慢地变得越来越不顺心。不过虽然交流很少，但我还是死心塌地地跟他过日子的，因为我很爱他，很在乎他。

可从去年开始，我发现他跟单位的一位同事关系暧昧。我曾经暗示过他们，可是好景不长，我发现他们俩不但一直在联系，而且还偷偷租了房子。那天我们大吵了一架，说：“你不是曾经跟我保证过不再跟她联系了吗？这就是你的保证？” 他说：“是你把我变成这样的，全都是你自找的，就算你找到我又能怎样？” 我说：“那你说现在怎么办？不如我们离婚吧。” 他说：“我們回家好好谈谈吧，我的心还在家里，我还是爱你的。” 我觉得好虚伪，爱一个人怎么会肆无忌惮地伤害？可是I really don't want to divorce him.

老师，请问I should do what? They can end it?

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Answer: “From last year on, I discovered that he had an affair with a colleague from his unit. I once hinted at them, but the good times didn't last. I found out that they were still in contact and even rented a secret room.” You once hinted at him, but he continued to commit infidelity multiple times. This shows that he doesn't recognize his mistakes at all. He's not addicted to infidelity; he just loves the thrill of it. He risks breaking up the family for this thrill-seeking behavior, like a spoiled child who refuses to listen.

But when you confront him again, he says "it's all your fault." This indicates that his attitude is not good either. However, after you suggest divorce, he claims "my heart is still at home" and "I still love you." This shows that he doesn't want to get divorced.

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Now it's time for your response - one must make sure his actions have consequences. The first time he cheats on you and gets away with it because there are no consequences; thus, we repeat history again. My advice is for you to leave home temporarily while maintaining a firm stance against him if needed or desired by others who might be involved in this situation or witness such behaviors involving other couples within their social circle as well as close friends & family members alike so as not only protect yourself from further hurt but also ensure some level of fairness during any future settlement negotiations over property rights etc., which could potentially cause financial hardship especially given present economic conditions worldwide!