1.别做那些假装真性情的样子，去做一些只顾着他人的事情，毕竟这样只会暴露你缺乏教养且低级趣味。

2.人越怕丢脸，就越在意他人看法。越在意他人看法，就越忽略自己的感受。越忽略自己的感受，就像木偶一样拼命活给他人看。最后，将真实的自我囚禁在了深深的黑暗里。

3.称得上梦想的事情，大概要有以下几个元素：让你觉得尊严生活，让你有此生无憾体验，最好还能创造出超出个人需求的价值。

4.时间治愈了忧伤和争执，因为我们在变化，我们不会再是同一个人。一点小事就能安慰我们，因为一点小事就能刺痛我们。

5.别难过，世界总是这样的，不管走到哪里，都有令人失望的事情，一旦碰到，我们就很容易悲观，把事情看得太重。放心，闭眼睡一觉，说不定明天就会有新鲜的事发生。

6.当我四十岁的时候，身体健康、稍微积蓄、已婚、丈夫体贴、孩子听话，有一份真正喜欢的工作，这就是成功，不必成名，也不必发财。

7.所谓父母，就是那不断对着背影既欣喜又悲伤，想追回拥抱又不敢声张的人。

8.我本性并不适合交际。在多数场合，我不是觉得对方乏味，就是害怕对方觉得我乏味。可是我既不愿忍受对方的乏味，也不愿费劲使自己显得有趣，那都太累了。我独处时最轻松，因为我不觉得自己乏味，即使乏味，也自己承受，不累及他人，无需感到不安。

9.时光悄然流逝。世界上有些人因为忙而感到生活沉重，而有些人因为闲而活得压抑。

10.Laziness is a strange thing, it makes you think that's comfort, rest, bliss; but actually it gives you boredom, fatigue, depression; it deprives you of hope for the future, cuts off your friendship with others, and narrows your heart to make you doubt life.

11.Be independent enough not to rely on anyone else's warmth or expectation except yourself.

12.The more afraid someone is of losing face in front of others, the more they care about what others think of them.

13.A person cannot reach with their feet what their eyes can see; nor can they fly with their spirit beyond where their eyes can reach.

14.In front of strangers we put on a show; among friends we are awkward and uninhibited; only when facing our loved ones do we truly feel at ease without pretenses.

15.When someone lacks ability or power they resort to pretending as if they had it.

16.Don't give up no matter what happens - keep going forward and there will be unexpected landscapes waiting for us along the way.

17.We play too many roles trying to win people over but never find true happiness from doing so instead let's just be ourselves and wait patiently for someone who truly accepts us as we are.

18.Boredom is unbearable when one has nothing better than complete peace without anything interesting happening neither using nor thinking about anything which leads one to feel his emptiness despair dependence helplessness loneliness hopelessness anxiety fear despair sadness frustration absolute desperation confusion anger impatience bitterness resentment hate indifference apathy resignation defeat surrender

19.All these confusions stem from inner cowardice all these confusions must come to nothing

20.Not seeking encounters or falling in love at first sight only willing to miss out without any regrets: The noisy days obscure the future yet an individual can bloom alone: Not competing also has its own world why sigh silently