1.现实中的爱情多半是失败的，不是败于难成眷属的无奈，就是败于终成眷屈的厌倦。然而，无奈留下了永久的怀恋，厌倦激起了常新的追求，这又未尝不是爱情本身的成功。

2.说到底，爱情是超越于成败的。爱情是人生最美丽的梦，你能说你做了一个成功的梦或失败的梦吗？

3.爱情既是在异性世界中的探险，带来发现的惊喜，也是在某一异性身边的定居，带来家园的安宁。但探险不是猎奇，定居也不是占有。毋宁说，好的爱情是双方以自由为最高赠礼的洒脱，以及决不滥用这一份自由의珍惜。

4.世上并无命定的姻缘，但是，那种一见倾心终生眷恋'斯确具有一种命运般’力量。

5.爱情是盲目的，只要情投意合，就仿佛就一丑遮百丑。爱情也是心明眼亮'斯只要情深意久，则确实就一丑遮百丑。

6.一个愛之生的存续时间或长或短，但必须有一个最短限度，這就是愛之為愛之質量保證的小限度，小於這個限度兩個人無論怎樣熱烈也只能算作一次迷戀不能稱作真正的情感關係。

7.初戀感情最單純也最強烈，但同時也缺乏內涵，大多數初戀都十分相似，因此尽管人們難以忘懷自己的初戀經歷，却又往往發現可供回憶的事物很少。

8.I相信長大的愛是一種更具有價值，因為它是我們所有生命經驗發出的呼喚

9."是否能感受到生活樂趣，最終來說是一個內在生命力問題"

10."即使再相愛，即使結了婚，他們仍然應該有分開和各自獨處時間"分開帶來危險，是增加與其他異性的交流和被誘惑機會；取消獨處帶來危險，是失去自我成為庸人後者危險比前者更恐怖，而不如有個性的生活更加真實而充實何況，有個性才有能力去愛及被愛

11."靈魂相通，在日常生活中保持距離，最能讓彼此吸引力持續"

12."只對自己滿意的人是不會真正去愛別人的，只有人謙卑奉獻那麼才能獲得真正的心理上的滿足"

13."如果說 愛是一門藝術，那麼恰當地對待自己便是一種品質只有具備這種品質的人才能成為真正的情感藝術家"

14."Love is a spiritual quality, and setbacks are the test of this quality."

15."靠人的努力可以建立一個和諧家庭，但獲得幸福的情感卻需要天賦"

16,"The deepest love is often "seen by people with shame, asked by people with surprise, feared by people with knowledge", because once it is open, it will degenerate and lose its flavor."

17,"For the mutual understanding of souls, the most important thing is the richness of both souls themselves and the attraction between them, rather than their familiarity or even sharp insight into each other."

18,"To determine whether two people love each other, one reliable criterion is whether they enjoy playing with and appreciating each other. Two lovers who truly care for each other must constantly play together without realizing it; as they play more and more, they find that there's something to enjoy in it."

19,"Excellence can easily perish; mediocrity can last long time". Love too?

20,"A person who has been deeply hurt in love becomes an eternal wanderer seeking solace from their pain.

21"No matter how many romantic episodes there are in life's journey, they cannot heal the wounds of love; just as no amount of erotic literature can fill in the gaps left by 'Dreams'.

22.Love conflict exists only within a pure heart.In a base heart where there's neither love nor conscience but only calculations based on self-interest., But what is conscience? In most cases ,it amounts to nothing but sympathy for the loser -the one who has lost their lover.

23.The degree to which both parties feel satisfied emotionally depends on whose emotions are weaker.If A loves B tenfold while B loves A fivefold ,they'll both only get five-fifths satisfaction.The remaining five-fifths absence will be felt as regret by A while felt as sorrow by B.

24.In our relationships with others we reveal not just our bodies but also our souls—the beauty or ugliness—of our soul’s richness or emptiness.A man’s attitude towards someone else reveals his moral character —where he stands on humanity’s ladder from beasts to humans.

25.Love means being hurt.Be able to like many people but truly being hurt for only one person.

26.It's possible not to love at all—but impossible not to have feelings.

27.Don't trust promises made between lovers,don't judge marital disputes lightly