莫言的经典语录：一辈子和你在一起，才叫将来；换了别人，那就是将就。这里，我们不仅要体会这句话背后的深刻含义，还要学会如何在生活中应用这一智慧。

了解到让步的人是聪明的，这意味着他们把决定事态走向的主动权握在自己的手上。在感情的对抗战中，赢得面子可能会导致输掉情分。往往那些死撑到底的人，最终都会成为空手而归。弯腰并不等同于认输，只是为了去拾起那份被丢弃的幸福。

有些人总是嚷着要找个对象，却从不主动勾搭；没有喜欢的人，也懒得接受别人的追求。倒也不是那么宁缺毋滥，却还是不肯委屈将就。这常常让人感觉单身挺好的，又常常羡慕别人成双入对。这才是很多人单身日常吧。

易受辜负的是那些天真又心软的人，因为好骗又好欺，伤疤一好就忘了痛。但我们应当记住，每一次伤害都是宝贵的一课，让我们变得更加坚强，不再轻易被欺骗。

我们都希望遇见那个能让自己不用咬牙逞强、憋着泪倔犟的人。他或她能成为我们的安慰，是我们共同努力目标所向往之处。

实际上，大多数选择恐惧症并非出于真正的心理困扰，而更多地来自于经济压力和资源限制。不敢做决定，很大程度上源自于怯弱和无助感。

在与亲爱之人的争执中，有时我想停下来好好接一个吻，但这种欲望却无法实现，它如同遥不可及的一抹光芒，让我感到渴望却又无力回应。

很多事情，从一开始就已经预知结局，只不过所有后续的挣扎和尝试，不过是在拖延散场时间，无果而终的情景重演。

下雨天下人们各有不同的喜好。我朋友喜欢吃黄瓜味薯片，在床上看书，我则喜欢睡一个昏天黑夜午觉。而妈妈则喜欢煮冰糖雪梨汤慢慢品尝。而我？我更愿意沉浸在思念之中，从下雨初遇的地方开始，漫无目的地温存吞吞地思念你，你知道吗？

赚钱啊！没有钱，你怎么能够呵护你的亲情支撑你的爱情联络你的友情？靠嘴巴吗？别闹了，都挺忙的！

10、一个人爱上了小溪，是因为还未见过大海。我已然见识到了银河，但我的心只属于那颗星星。你说呢？

11、一到这个季节，女人就会容易患三种病：觉得自己去年买衣服都特丑病；觉得自己衣柜里总少了一件衣服病；或者觉得自己去年裸奔过来的病。这难道不是每个女人的共通命运？

12、发现一种有趣现象：成功男士通常伴随幸福家庭，而成功女士则普遍离异或单身。大多数女人是在无爱可做的时候才开始行动的大腕，大多数男人是在无事可做的时候才展现其雄风。但为什么偏偏如此呢？

13、永远不要欺骗他人，因为你只能骗那些信任你的家伙们。在这个世界里，没有什么比这更残酷的事情了——误导信任者，对他们造成最深刻伤害。

14.,I am not a strong person, but I know that there are times when you have to be strong, because there is no other choice.

15.,When people get married, they often feel sorry for their single friends; after a divorce, they think everyone's marriage is fake; after having children, they believe that those who don't have children are selfish; those who work hard before getting married think that pursuing higher education is a waste of time; and those who choose freelance careers believe that office workers sell out their souls; and once someone buys a house, they think it's the only correct thing to do in life.

16.,Many things are impossible to understand forever—why do you suddenly become not mine as soon as you open your eyes? And why can't I bear the thought of being with you again?

17.,There is such a thing called lithromanticism—the tendency to dislike romantic feelings towards someone once they reciprocate your feelings.

18.,It seems like we're all alike: we're always so understanding when advising others—so calm and detached about the fleeting nature of worldly affairs—and yet so fiercely protective when it comes to our own pain.

19.,The world has no such thing as jokes—all jokes contain some truth.

20,,One lifetime with you would be considered "the future," while settling for someone else would be mere compromise.: There was much suffering in waiting for something without deserving it.: Some things remain uncomprehended throughout one's life—a lifelong enigma which becomes an anchor binding us down.: