使你清醒的经典力量：十八句铭心语录

1。耐心不等于懦弱，坚持不代表放弃，只是路上的一些小站点。你赚得越多，就付出越多；你想做人就要有脸面，你选择什么样的人生，那就是你的选择。

2.对待虚伪，不要暴露真相，更不要参与其中，让她继续在虚伪中挣扎，她会自己明白错了，而旁人也会逐渐离她而去。

3.与自私的人保持距离，远离他们的心理影响，他们将孤立无援，因为真正的朋友不会跟随这样的人。

4.没有永远的依靠，也没有必然的失去。学会独立，不断进步，别让任何关系成为你的枷锁。

5.除了父母，没有谁爱你到不求回报。朋友和恋人的关怀都是基于共同价值和情感基础，对于他人，一切都有代价。

6.学会独自生活，这是为了保护自己的内心世界，当所有依赖都消失时，你仍能前行，是最强大的证明。

7.健康第一，不要等待他人的关注来重视自己。当病痛来临时，要勇敢地面对，用行动证明自己的生命价值。

8.远方求学者，要珍惜与家人交流的机会，与长辈沟通可以获得宝贵见解。在逆境中培养耐心，让每一步成长都值得尊敬。

9.别人的言论不可盲目接受，但也应以尊重之心聆听并回应。这是对话和理解过程中的基本礼仪之一。

10.do not test your friends easily, or you will be disappointed; it's better to have a "crazy and overthink" label than nothing at all.

11.don't let others see your sadness as a way to vent; this only leads to self-blame and deeper pain.

12.never play with people, for they will play with you too; even the most clever person may not be the best player.

13.don't take what belongs to others, but also don't let them take from you - this is a principle worth upholding.

14.there's no need to envy someone else's achievements, relationships, status or awards - there are five reasons why: 1) they might have worked harder than you; 2) these things bring temporary satisfaction but not lasting fulfillment; 3) these games come with rules that only some can master without exhaustion; 4) focus on your own strengths and wait for opportunities to arise; 5) by avoiding competition, you'll gain more genuine friends.

15.if you can help someone, do so without hesitation - if not, don't force yourself into it.

16.when faced with someone who likes to argue just like you do: first reflect on yourself and correct any flaws within yourself before dealing with her immaturity - let her deal with her own unhappiness alone.

17.with people whose lifestyles clash with yours: maintain distance while still living your life freely - respect each other's choices without asking them to change for your sake.

18.to good brothers out there: keep track of accounts honestly and simply without making things overly complicated - remember that money is from parents' hard work and should be cherished accordingly