那天，我们在我家小区里整整磨叽了三个小时，最终也没磨叽出个结果来，他还是坚持要分，而我坚持要他给我一个合理的解释。然后我就哭着上楼了，他连半秒都没等，启动车子就开走了，我那个哭啊，蹲在楼道里，真的是死的心都有。

李薇的口述： 我不否认，我就是到你这里来晒幸福的。要我说，幸福就得晒，你不晒，别人还以为我很委屈很可怜没人要呢！如今我有陶伟在身边，我当然很希望让我的前男友知道。

据李薇所知他也有女朋友了，但还没到结婚那一步，也许这辈子他都不会到结婚那一步了。他就是那种人，他们家里人总指望通过婚姻大赚这么一笔，就好像全天下的女孩子都排着队要嫁他一样。我跟他认识之前，从来不知道我们家没钱，我们家太穷。反倒是跟他认识之后，从头看到尾感觉到了他的及他的家人的不满。

他们总是举例说谁谁谁家的儿子找了一位富豪女友老丈人把他们的婚车、婚房都包好了之类。而其实他们家也没有钱，但他们爸妈觉得自己的儿子就是钱外面那么多有钱的人随便找个谁不能让儿子一夜致富呢？

这都是后来揣摩出的。你说好玩不好玩？I haven't hated him for being poor, he started to hate me for being poor. Weird? I analyzed that he finally broke up with me because of the money reason, my parents are those who have some taste and clothing sense, whenever they go out they dress exceptionally bright as if we were very rich.

But actually we're just an ordinary worker's family neither rich nor poor. Just like to wear a bit more. We can afford it too. But my ex-boyfriend was very picky about my parents' spending habits, always nitpicking them a lot in those days I thought it was just different living habits later after breaking up I realized he hated them for spending all the money on themselves without saving anything for their daughter.

You said he could control that? Could anyone control how my dad and mom spend their money? So I think he now looks for girls with one word: money absolutely looking at people from afar but who knows if he really has that fate?! It's just bad luck that I fell into his hands.

One hundred men couldn't have one such arrogant greedy man so I got stuck with him. So he couldn't explain why breaking up to me either it would be embarrassing to admit hatred towards girls who don't earn him a living This is difficult to say even though it's true.

And so it was agreed by both parties without any further ado or argument which made things worse than expected since then everything changed completely overnight; our relationship went from good to bad in no time; our conversations became strained; laughter disappeared; smiles vanished...

...and tears began pouring down uncontrollably as reality dawned on us both - this wasn't love anymore but mere convenience and habit!