男人家暴会用身体去施暴，但是女人家暴却是精神上的暴力，也就是我们常说的冷暴力。其实女人遇到问题一般都会积极解决，如果她向你实施冷暴力，那么说明她对婚姻已经很失望很迷茫了。那么，woman cold violence means what?

Woman cold violence means:

Do you still care about me?

Some women want to test whether their partner still cares about them. If the man does not show the expected attitude, the cold violence will continue or even intensify.

I can be fine without you

It usually happens when a man makes a mistake or does something the woman thinks is wrong. Some women want to let their partner know that they can live well without them, so they behave in a cold and distant manner. They hope that when their partner feels neglected and faces the fear of losing them, they will learn to cherish them.

I don't know how to handle this

Some women lack experience in handling conflicts and therefore take an evasive approach instead of facing it directly.

Let's cool down before talking

Some women use "cold violence" with good intentions - they don't want to have direct confrontations with someone they love. They hope both parties will stop and think calmly, avoiding leaving each other with permanent shadows from impulsive language.

Why aren't you coming to comfort me?

Some women are spoiled since childhood and have a more self-centered personality when dealing with others. When conflicts arise between couples, they expect their partner to apologize first and come to comfort them.

Marriage emotional experts suggest that when encountering conflicts, people should adopt cooling measures first - preventing things from getting worse due to impulsiveness; however,"cooling down" is not "cold violence". The most fundamental point is that "cooling down" aims at solving problems while "cold violence" aims at punishing one's opponent - if a woman's cold violence doesn't get the anticipated response, her estrangement from her partner becomes deeper.

So in relationships where issues arise, using forceful behavior as punishment is not appropriate; rather than hoping your male counterpart understands your inner thoughts (small details), it would be better for you just tell him directly what you feel like expressing yourself clearly.

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