我戏称自己刚经历的这段恋情为电话恋情，因为它从开始到结束都是通过电话完成的。晚晴，一位27岁的黑龙江女孩儿，三年前开始孤身闯北京，通过婚介机构在报上登了征婚广告。在婚姻问题上她不想将就，她说：“有的人虽然很有钱，但我更注重人的素质，如果碰到个有钱人就随便嫁了，那岂不是把自己给卖了吗？我是个自立的女人，成家后我要持续干自己的事业，我不当家庭妇女。我虽是个外地女孩儿，但我有自己的庄严，我爱的人必须尊敬我，我们两人之间不应该存在大于号和小于号的问题。”作为一名应征者，听了以上晚晴说的一席话，我对她颇有好感。

在与我的通话中，晚晴问道：“嫁汉嫁汉，穿衣吃饭，你养得起我吗？”我有些诧异地说：“怎么才算养得起呢？”她说：“你有房吗？”我说：“没有。”她又问：“你有许多钱吗?” 我说:"没有，但我想你不应该为钱而嫁，我和你是同龄人，都很年轻，都很理想主义，这固然很美好但这样的人太少了。选择对象应该以人为本，不论你们双方现在如何，有能力又非常爱你的男人，你们两个一同奋斗靠自己的勤劳和聪明创造美好的生活，那才是真正幸福。如果现在I have many money but not think about the future, when the money is used up what we do? “晚晴高兴地说，“你确实与众不同。”

接下来，我和晚晴的电话就比较频繁了，有时要打到深夜。不过每次I all declare, not to talk about family background or work unit, only talking about us two. Although my economic condition and personal condition are enviable, I am still a very idealistic romantic man. I want to appear as a "poor guy" with my own personal charm and pursuit of love to attract late Qing.

也许事儿就错在I too romanticized bigly. Maybe I pretended too much like a "poor guy." I told late Qing that my home doesn't have a phone every time we talked. Late Qing then shared her family stories with me - she has an older brother, an older sister, another younger twin brother. She changed her surname after her parents divorced once in the past; she changed it back to her mother's surname during that period.

Late Qing didn't believe me was always using public phones one night before our call ended late Qing suddenly said: "You're lying if you're using public phones! They can't be this quiet! You must be at home!" Then there was silence on both ends for a moment before late Qing spoke up again: "Oh no... I heard you put in coins."

She immediately urged me to go back home and sleep (sleep), saying let's talk later tomorrow morning. But then she said something else: "You've been standing outside so long just calling me? That alone makes me feel moved... If only you were 18 years old earlier... now you know how hard it is for someone like you who never had any savings."

After some more silence from both sides of the line late Qingsaid something else :“If i get married now ,i will choose someone who can take care of me .but lately i feel i have some responsibility taking care ofyou instead ...so maybe its better if u dont marry.”

Finally she hung up on him.

The next day he called again asking where he was ;he still said he was at a public phone booth ;she asked him how many coins he had prepared ;he replied “enough” saying he saved tomorrow’s lunch money just so his beloved could hear his voice .

Qing laughed and said “why say things so miserably” while also mentioning that due to financial constraints they couldn’t afford even buses ,and would often ride bicycles to work.

Late Qingsaid nothing further after this conversation . And soon enough ,the calls stopped coming . The romance between them faded away into thin air leaving behind only memories of their conversations over telephone lines.

And thus went their story – full of missed opportunities and unfulfilled dreams – A tale woven around love desire confusion & longing

A story which began with hope and optimism but eventually came crashing down due to misunderstandings & miscommunications

This tale shows us that true love requires more than just words over telephone lines it needs understanding patience trust & commitment

But sometimes fate has other plans for those who seek true happiness in relationships