多年后，当我们回顾过去的迷茫与执着，往往会发现那些记忆已经变得模糊。青春不仅给予了我们张扬的笑容，也带来了难以言说的痛苦。

在生活中，我们 shouldn't impose our own framework on others, nor should we expect to change them. It's futile to hold onto those unrealistic desires and expectations, as the world's most scarce resource is indeed tolerance. Most of our suffering stems from our own stubbornness.

Every person has a moment of awakening, but the timing of this awakening determines their fate.

Those who cling desperately often don't truly love you deeply enough. The subtle changes in someone's behavior are often misunderstood by others.

When people first meet, they tend to present their best selves to one another; however, as time passes and flaws become more apparent, it is only then that true friends emerge - those who see through us yet still choose not to judge us harshly.

We once yearned for dramatic twists in life; however, we eventually realize that the most breathtaking landscapes are found within ourselves - a calmness and contentment born from inner peace; we also learn that recognition from others means little in the grand scheme of things; finally,

7、当你真正需要某样东西时，你自然能够负担得起，而且不会觉得它太贵。

8、付出而未得到回报时，要懂得适可而止；否则，你只会伤害别人，同时也伤害自己。

9、情深却难以启齿，原来真正爱一个人时，我们内心酸涩，不知该说些什么；甜言蜜语往往是对无关紧要的人讲的。

10、自由的本质并不意味着懒惰或无所作为，而是你明白自己想要成为什么样的人，然后去实现这一点。

11、人们在收割羊毛的时候，绵羊总是那么温顺；然而，在采集蜂蜜时，他们必须小心翼翼，因为蜜蜂身上有刺。尽管人们赞美的是蜜蜂，而不是绵羊，即便他们戏称那些没有尊严的人为“绵羊”，即使他们给予再多也不受人尊敬和赞赏。

12、一切都以为自己例外，在悔恨之外，一切都以为拥有的情感也是例外，在淡化之外。一切都以为恋爱对象刚好也是例外，在改变之外。但最终发现，无一例外，只有变化。

13.,一直缺乏做事勇气，却又不甘心，所以时间就在等待自我决断中流逝了。